I’ve always been a firm believer in the idea of ‘If you don’t like it, don’t _____ it”. Meaning if you don’t like the music, don’t listen to it, if you don’t like the movie, don’t watch it, etc. Sometimes with artists, we have a difficult time like a group as a whole and start to nitpick at the members themselves. It happens with every idol group, whether they be male or female. It also tends to happen among fans of other people. Most Koda Kumi fans will comment in Ayumi Hamasaki forums saying that Ayumi sucks. Vice versa. What I find interesting is when people do such things when the other person isn’t even related to the topic. Awhile back I was visit a Koda Kumi community on Livejournal and a person made a swipe at Utada Hikaru. Just because it’s a Koda Kumi fan community, doesn’t mean that all the members only listen to Koda Kumi. Most people I’ve found like more than one artist. While I am a big Utada Hikaru fan, I do enjoy music from other people almost as much. So I was irked by the comment but saw someone posted saying that it was inappropriate considering that there were Utada Hikaru fans there. Then a large thread of the two arguing their points happened and eventually the person who made the comment took it back. Why even bring Utada Hikaru into the post if she has nothing to do with it at all? I would have said the same thing if it were a Koda Kumi swipe made in an Utada Hikaru community.
What I find more irritating than vexing is this idea that people honestly think we want to hear how much you hate an artist. It’s a free world, you have a right to your opinion. But why would I want to focus so much anger and hatred onto one particular person when there is so much else I could be doing? Don’t you have better things to do with your time? Or is that you have no such life and you hate the artist so much (even though you’ve never met them or spoken to them, and probably never will) that you feel a need to shout it out. Someone needs to get their priorities straight. I mean, if I really had nothing better to do with my time and let my dislike for certain H!P members grow to a point of ridiculous heights, I could write essays upon essays as to why I don’t like them. But I don’t. Why? Because it’s stupid. And it’s pointless. And you’re not making a point to the people who do like them. Instead, those people who do like them will roll their eyes at another ‘anti-fan’. Being an anti-fan isn’t cool, and while you and your friends who sit there griping and moaning about those artists do that, the rest of world has moved on. It makes you look like less of a person.
I always find it annoying when people write full out posts complaining about a musical artist’s personality. Go ahead, complain about their voice all you want, that’s your personal opinion, whatever. But to sit and bash a person they’ve never even met before? That irritates me. It seems that it’s becoming a trend nowadays for people to write snarky remarks, and that it makes you look cooler. When presented in a silly manner, sure. But when it starts to take over and dominant your weblog instead of posting about things you like. It’s all in good fun, but after awhile, it gets annoying. You start to just look like a punk and while some people may do comments like “LOL!” or “Heck yeah!”, it wears down. Not to mention the focus on that will effect you more than you think. More than you realize.
With groups, it’s hard to not feel particularly angry with one or two members. Everyone has favorites and they want their favorite to get the spotlight. And for the people that do get the spotlight, they get blame. They blame that should be directed at the record company. I don’t know how many times it’s been necessary to point that out but people just don’t get it. They still sit there and repeat the same whining statements over and over again, thinking something will change. Guess what, it won’t. Buck up, deal with it, move on. So if you don’t like it, don’t listen to it, if you don’t like them, ignore them. Don’t be bitter for the artist you may like, because they obviously don’t give a crap about it. If they do, well, that’s not really any of your business. Lots of times as fans we forget that if the artist really did have any personal beef, they can handle it themselves. They don’t need us to be angry for them. If they aren’t upset, it’s obvious that we shouldn’t be upset either. Yes, there is injustice in the music industry. This is nothing new and this is something that will never change. While the minority may scream at the top of their lungs, the majority in the end will make their final decision known.

